Wisdom Wednesday – Get Rid of the Crabs in Your Life

Posted on September 10, 2014 by MarleneMB

“A creative man is motivated by the desire to achieve, not by the desire to beat others.” ~ Ayn Rand

Do you suffer from the “Crab” syndrome? If you watch crabs in a basket, you may observe that when one tries to climb out the basket to freedom, the others are pulling it down. Many people have this crab mentality. Instead of being happy for others successes, they criticize them or try to tear them down.

What they don’t realize is, the more you celebrate others wins and achievements, the more you are likely to be motivated to achieve yours! Hanging out with losers, crabs, will claw away at your self-confidence and drain your energy. Get Rid of the Crabs in Your Life! Surround yourself with winners who are quick to celebrate your success!

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Timeless Tuesday – Mom Knows Best – Put Your Mask on First

Posted on September 9, 2014 by MarleneMB

oxygen-mask-227x300 — Put Your Mask on First

When you were a child the last thing you wanted to hear is another unsolicited advice from a parent pointing out the flawed in your plans. My mother was always counseling me about what I should and should not do in a given situation, and she still does. I must admit many times I have done the opposite of what she suggested only to eat crow later! Lucky for me, my mother is not one to say “I told you so!” :-).

One of the best advice she gave me was: “Put your mask on first.” This she said is the advice that the airlines instruct the passengers to do; should an emergency occur. Put on your mask first, then you would be able to provide better assistance to the other person. She said if you don’t have proper oxygen, how are you going to help someone else. (Picture a Jamaican mother with a Jamaican accent!)

She gave me this advice when she saw me trying to give help to others at the detriment of my time, health and financial income potential. I confess that it is hard for me to say “no” when someone seeks my assistance. My mother was concerned that I was doing so much for others that I was ignoring my own needs and wants. I had to admit that she is right. Now I reassess each situation, prior to saying “yes.” I ensure that I have the time and bandwidth to handle what is being asked of me. I also take stock of how it will impact my business.

Yes. We have to admit most often Mom Knows Best. Next time before you commit, Put Your Mask on First! Happy Timeless Tuesday.

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Invincible Monday – Keep Pedaling

Posted on September 8, 2014 by MarleneMB

One of my favorite pastimes and form of exercises is riding my bicycle. Since learning to ride a bike as a child, I’ve enjoyed the sport immensely. I bought an aluminum, 21-speed, men’s mountain bike for my birthday, some years ago. I like men’s bike because that is what I first learn to ride. I chose the aluminum bike due to the lightweight…I can pick it up with one hand. It also has front shocks to absorb going over rough roads (not much of that in the city area…but you never know).

There were many mornings that I would jump on the bike and ride. It gave me a feeling of freedom and exhilaration. When I moved to South Florida, I rode it less and less due to my fear of the traffic. Let’s face it, if you live in South Florida, you know people drive crazy around here. One would often hear of a biker being hit by an automobile. The bike sat for a few years not begin touched…parked on the balcony.

Recently, I made up my mind that I’m going to get on the bike and face my fear. I bought a helmet to give me a sense of security. Putting the bike on the elevator, excitement bundled with nerves ran around my gut. I pushed the door open to the parking lot, got on the bike and road off into the street. Keeping to the more residential part of the city, I road along feeling the freedom I love returning. The breeze felt great on my face as my legs kept on pedaling around the neighborhood. The more I kept on pedaling, the more the fears subsided. The chains of my fear broke, replaced by a feeling of accomplishment and self-confidence.

Then I thought about all the other fears that I allowed to keep me from accomplishing more goals. Goals that align with my achieving my life’s purpose. Now, I’m committing to facing these fears and riding them out of my mind. I’m going to keep on pedaling towards those goal lines. Won’t you come riding with me…Keep Pedaling those fears away, my friends!!!

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Fun Facet Friday – Soak Up the Sun!

Posted on August 8, 2014 by MarleneMB

Fun Facet Friday – Soak Up the Sun!

Has it been a crazy week? Feeling overwhelmed? Well it’s Friday! Although it is a rainy day in Florida…I plan to Soak Up the Sun by making my own sunshine. Won’t you take a break with me and just dance? Here is Sheryl Crow’s video that may help you make your own sunshine!!!

Keep Living a Diamond Life! Live A Life of Purpose! Happy Fun Facet Friday!

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Timeless Tuesday – Take Action! Get Wet!

Posted on August 5, 2014 by MarleneMB

“Do not be like the cat who wanted a fish but was afraid to get his paws wet.” ~ William Shakespeare

Many people have dreams, if act upon, can benefit not only themselves but also others. Yet, they let fear and doubt keep them from putting their feet into the water. They envision all types of obstacles or situations that would prevent them from being successful in making these dreams a reality.

Dream, plan, act then jump in. Don’t be afraid to Get Wet to taste the victory of catching that fish!

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