A few weeks ago, my friends and I attended the Art Walk Miami monthly event. It involves strolling from one art gallery to another in the Design District of Miami. At one of our stop we saw a female DJ spinning on one of the new digital system. How things have changed since I was a DJ back in college. We had turntables with vinyl records and worry about spinning the records just right to mix the beats. Now most of that is digitize.

I didn’t set out to be a DJ. My girlfriend, Miranda was the head of the Urban Contemporary segment and she recruited and trained me for the school radio station. Of course you can’t be a DJ without a cool name. I don’t think mine was so cool: “Sapphire.” There was so much to learn. How to use the control panel, set up the various advertisement tapes, setting the needle just at the right spot to transition from one song to the other. Most important one had to learn to have “No Dead Air.” This means there should be no silence for a long time.

I had a lot of fun being a DJ on the air and off. As people got to know us, they would request that we play at different events. Even though I was underage, I would get into the clubs because I was one of the DJs playing the event. I was getting paid for having fun. If we didn’t get paid, we got in free. Another perk was getting free drinks (don’t tell my son that part). When someone wanted us to play a request, sometimes they would buy us drinks. Is that considered a kickback or a bribe? I am in Miami now, I have to make sure I use the right terminology. Ha!

I did have some challenges as a DJ. I had a guy who would stalk me. Sometimes I would have the 2-4 a.m. shift, and he would be outside. He turned out to be harmless. Then I would get tons of fan mail, but a majority of them was from the prisoners from the county jail. My girlfriend enjoyed delivering the bags and dropping them in front of me with a smirk on her face. I must say some of them wrote really well and had beautiful penmanship! It was some of the content that was the problem.

My trip to the Miami Art Walk took me on a journey back to those DJ days; they are now fond memories. My poor mother is now stuck with a stack of crates filled with my vinyl records lining one wall. Maybe one day I will pull them out and see if her turntable still works. The biggest challenge would be to find needles that will work. I think one of the first records I would play is “Request Line” by Rock Master Scott. Click title to listen.

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I was sitting in church when I got some not so great news. The good news was that I was in the right place at the right time, because Pastor Lomax invited us up for prayer requests. I headed straight to the altar and had him pray for the situation. This brought immediate comfort to me and I was able to continue with my positive experience from being around people that I love. At that moment, I chose not to give into the negative feelings. Instead I chose to release it and started looking for the positives.

My loves, we all experience bad news and bad situations, we sometimes have no control over them. Something from out of left field comes along and spins us off our axis. Suddenly we are not grounded or in the spot we use to be, or things don’t go the way we want them to go; but it is how we choose to react to these situations that matters. So I got home, cooked, watched HGTV (I like to imagine myself buying my house on some island overlooking the ocean) and read more of Wayne Dyer’s Wishes Fulfilled.”

In it, Dr. Dyer encourages the reader to envision the life that one wants and how one feels, should one get that life. The song “I Hope You Dance” popped into my head. I jumped on YouTube and played the video. Needless to say this transported me to a better place. Next time you get hit with some unpleasant tidings, choose to dance. Would you dance with me? Enjoy the words on the slides by Nash Bazyani.

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I like having gadgets and using things technology brings us. I like hooking up the surround sound on my stereo and television, and figuring out where all the wires go. In my opinion microwaves, washers/dryers and air conditioning are some of the best inventions ever. They make life seem easier, more convenient and more comfortable. Yet, sometimes doing things the  “old fashion” way is the best.

I remember when I bought one of those automatic garbage cans that open by waving your hand over the sensor. It worked really well, until one day a family friend came over and tried to open it manually. He didn’t know how it operated; thus, he broke it. I replaced it with another one and someone dropped the top. This caused the battery compartment to break. I finally gave in and bought a garbage can that requires you to step on the foot lever and it opens. It is working perfectly fine! The same thing happened with the electric can openers. The electric ones broke so easily or they wouldn’t work if the light went out. I replaced them with a manual one that is wonderful. It cuts the cans and the cans open with smooth edges. I have it now for years and it still working well.

Sometimes we need to view social media the same light. It is good to be able to connect with others virtually. Social media has helped us advance our relationships beyond our traditional neighborhoods. I am able to re-connect with old friends and family members that I have not seen in years. It is fun to share information and get caught up on life’s events.

Still, social media and technology should not replace the human contact. As one of my friend said today: “Technology changes, but human nature stays the same.” People still want to have a real hug, to see a real smile, to exchange a firm handshake face to face. We are definitely social beings. Social beings that adapt to using technology, but beings that need the old fashion touch! This weekend make sure you give someone a big hug the old fashion way.

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The great thing about this stage of my life is that I realize that death is certain. Instead of being in a panicked state, I chose to make the best of whatever time I have in this space that I occupy in this realm. One of my friends says that I am never home anymore. Well, I thought that instead of sitting of my couch, dreaming about doing something purposeful; I am going to live that Diamond Life that I dream about.

I now participate in organizations such as Toastmasters International that helps me to learn to be a better speaker and leader. It also gives me the opportunity to help in the development of others and to fulfill my purpose as a mentor, coach and encourager. But there are days when things get a little rough and I have to find something to encourage myself. These are the days when I get on YouTube and search for upbeat videos; or, sometimes someone posts something on Facebook that inspires me.

Here is one of the videos that worked for me this week. It is a YouTube video by Shawn Anchor taking about happiness. It was definitely instrumental in getting me into my winning zone. I hope you enjoy it.

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